Iyoaye's Public Notes

 I am starting this post with a question I want you to answer – What do you do when your back is against the wall? I have always summarized my actions into nuggets that guide my actions and decisions. My plan with this post is to share my top 50 answers, and hopefully, I will be able to write/talk about the details of these answers and their circumstances. Before I get to that point, I will take this post as a gauge of appetite – If everything goes well, this might become a self-help book in the future.  I have titled this post "Answers" because that is what it is about, and they have helped me get to where I am right now.  So here goes the answers:  God is one, he's right and means the best God loves you- he really does Don't despise wealth; Don't obsessively desire riches; Be grateful for every benefit Think about one good thing that you're grateful for in this situation Do what your boss wants; It's in your place to make your boss trust you (Titus 2:9-1...

I wrote this note to myself the morning I turned 30 and it was born out of my reflection of my journey so far and a peek into the future – how I planned to spend the rest of my life. I wrote this in a journal and pretty much left it there until a few days ago when it popped on my mind again and I wanted to share it.  Here it goes:  There are many things to be grateful for! It's been a year of lessons, struggles, wins, and clarity. I am now focused on the next phase—technically, the  action  phase of my life. For context, I believe life has three stages: Preparation, Action, and Rest. While we don't have control over if and how soon we experience a phase, neither can we control how we get out of a phase — time and chance happen to us all, it is quite safe and easier to think about these phases as equal amounts of time such that you spend 1/3 of your life in each phase or about 50-70% of your life in preparation and action phase combined. (I might write more about this...